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“FACT: Women Love Sexually Dominant Men”

And, Exactly How To Be That Guy 
(Plus… Wimpy, ‘Non-Alpha’ Mistakes to Avoid)

By Adam Armstrong

You’ve heard of the 50 Shades of Grey books, right?

These books became The Erotic Fiction of choice for MILLIONS of women around the World.

Guess who the main character was?

He was a multi-billionaire. Yet, the MONEY isn’t what really made women LOVE the guy…

It was the fact that he was a truly sexually dominant man!

Think about this for just a second…

Women all over the World read - and masturbated over (!)- the 50 Shades of Grey books… and it was all because the lead character was sexually dominant. Sure, the money and good looks helped - but it was the fact that he was Sexually Dominant that really made women adore him!

Now, lemme ask you a question:

“Do you think it might be kinda important for YOU to be a sexually dominant lover - if you wanna be able to blow your woman’s mind in the bedroom?”

“YES” is the correct answer.

Read on, and you’ll find out why…

“Give In and Surrender To Me”

“Emotionally Healthy Women Love to ‘Give In’ and ‘Surrender’ to Dominant Men!”

For emotionally healthy women, sex is really all about 2 things:

i. ‘Giving in’ to her man

ii. Surrendering to her man

And, the truth is - ‘Giving In’ and ‘Surrendering’ are really the same thing!

Here’s how it works…

In the bedroom, the more your woman GIVES IN, and SURRENDERS, to you - the more PLEASURE - and orgasms - she can experience.

At this point, many guys might think:

“Well, you know what - I’m not that bothered about giving my woman maximum pleasure, and orgasms. I’m happy just ‘getting laid’ a few times a week.”

Here’s why this kinda thinking is missing the point…

The more pleasure - and ORGASMS - you give your woman:

- The higher her sex-drive will be (meaning, the more SEX you’ll get!)

- The more she’ll want to please you (meaning, she’ll willingly and eagerly do whatever you like in the bedroom!)

When you consider those 2 factors - it suddenly makes giving your woman PLEASURE a whole lot more appealing, right? ;)

And, remember…

Your ability to give her pleasure will come down to how much you make her ‘give in’ and surrender to you. Because, the more she ‘gives in’ and surrenders to you -  the more she can LET GO, the more pleasure she can experience…

And, the more she can CUM.

For a woman, sex is about letting go.

FACT: ’Letting go’ can only happen when she gives in and surrenders to you. (For the record - sex is all about CONTROL and POWER for a man, when he is truly ‘in tune’ with his MASCULINE POWER. The exact opposite of how it is for a woman).

Question is:

“How do you make your woman ‘give in’ and surrender to you in the bedroom?”

The answer is simple:

By being a sexually dominant alpha male.

How To Be A Sexually Dominant Alpha Male…

“She Wants to Feel Your Masculine STRENGTH in The Bedroom!”

I estimate that less than 1% of men are truly sexually dominant. And, that estimate isn’t plucked out of thin air…

It’s based on my personal experiences with women, including conversations with HUNDREDS of ‘the fairer sex’ about their sex-lives.

Most men do not have ‘the sexually dominant’ thing going on.

If they did - millions of women wouldn’t have needed to wank themselves silly reading books like 50 Shades of Grey!

The Good News for you is:

- When you become a sexually dominant man, you will own the power to blow any woman’s mind in the bedroom (regardless of your previous sexual experience, or penis size)

- Because most men are weak, non-dominant lovers - it’s really easy to ‘stand out from the crowd’ and be any woman’s ‘best ever,’ once you become truly dominant

Now, before I show you how to be a dominant lover in a few simple, proven steps, I want to remind you of ‘the sexual math’…

Here it is (burn it into your memory):

- The more dominant you are, the more your woman will give in and surrender to you

- The more your woman gives in, and surrenders, to you - the more she will ‘let go’

- The more she ‘lets go’ - the more pleasure, and ORGASMS, she will experience

- The more orgasms you give her - the higher her sex-drive will be, and the more she’ll want to pleasure you!

That is how sex works, in 4 simple bullet points! Pretty cool, huh? ;)

Now, let’s talk about how to be a sexually dominant man…

Being sexually dominant is really about 2 key things: TAKING CONTROL, and LEADING, your woman in the bedroom.

Many guys think sex should be a 50/50 thing…

Meaning they expect the woman to instigate the sex 50% of the time. They expect her to do 50% of the work. They expect her to take the lead 50% of the time.

Yet, the truth is - that’s total B.S.

You see, as a man - you’re supposed to be sexually dominant. You’re supposed to be IN CONTROL. You’re supposed to take control, and lead your woman, in the bedroom.

You are the YANG part of the ‘sexual equation.’

Your woman, on the other hand, is in the YING part. She’s sexually submissive…

She’s supposed to follow your lead, obey your commands, give in to you and surrender to you. And, when she does all that, and fully ‘lets go’ - she can then, and only then, experience MASSIVE sexual pleasure.

On the other hand…

When a woman goes to bed with a weak, non-dominant lover, she can rarely have even one ORGASM. Yet, a truly dominant lover can ‘get his woman off,’ with hardly any effort - over and over, and over again. Every single time.

To give your woman this level of pleasure, you must be dominant.

Here are some simple, yet powerful examples, of exactly how to be a dominant man:

To Instigate The Sex…

Take her by the hand, and lead her to the bedroom…

Put her over your shoulder, and CARRY her to the bedroom…

Tell her to put a thong on, blindfold herself, and wait for you on the bed.

However you instigate the sex - do it LIKE A MAN. Do it in a way that’ll turn her on, and make her dripping WET and HORNY for you.

And, above all else - make sure you are the one instigating the sex. Because, it’s your role - as the man - to do exactly that. And, women LOVE you for having balls big enough to do it.

The big mistake to avoid, as far as instigating sex goes, is saying anything like:

“Baby, can we have sex tonight?”

That’s WEAK. It’s asking for permission. It’s non-dominant.

It makes women want to CHEAT on their men. With the poor bastards' BOSS!

How To Fuck Dominantly…

“Don’t Be Afraid to Spank Her Ass, Grab Her Hair, and Call Her Your “Naughty Little Slut’ - it’s What She Wants!”

HARD and DEEP. That is the order of the day.

While it’s true that once-in-a-while, your woman might like you to ‘make-love’ to her soft and slowly…

Most of the time - women want you to FUCK them HARD and DEEP.

And, note that I said:

“Women want YOU to fuck THEM”

It’s not the other way round!

You are THE MAN. So it’s you who FUCKS her.

Whenever I hear a guy say something like:

“She fucked the shit out of me” …

…I cringe. Because those are not the words of a non-dominant man.

The mistake to avoid when having intercourse with your woman is too much ‘soft, gentle, love-making.’ And, expecting her to fuck you.

That’s just lame.

MAN-UP. Grab her by the hair, spank her ass… and bang her senseless.

It’s what she wants.

Dirty Talk…

As a truly sexually dominant man, you need to understand that being a GREAT LOVER - and making your woman cum over and over again - isn’t just about getting a raging hard boner and drilling her, HARD and DEEP, into the middle of next week.

Sure, she wants you to do that.

But, she also wants you to stimulate her MIND.

You see, for women, sex is more MENTAL than it is PHYSICAL.

So, you must stimulate her mind, as well as her pussy.

A girl I dated, several years back, summed it up perfectly when she said:

“Men need to fuck their women’s minds, not just their pussy’s”

Couldn’t have said it better myself.

Now, I’ll write extensively about dirty talk some other time. For now, let me give you 3 simple dirty talk lines that I regularly use in the bedroom. Try ‘em out with your woman…

During foreplay, just before you ‘go down’ on her and lick her pussy - say:

“Baby, I can’t wait to taste your wetness”

This line always drives women CRAZY.

When you’re fucking her HARD and DEEP, say:

“Baby, you love it when I fuck you hard and deep with my big, fat cock”

This kind of crude ‘just tell her what you’re feeling’ dirty talk - works incredibly well. As soon as you say it - you see the woman get even hornier, you feel her get even WETTER - and, ultimately…

She gets closer to ORGASM.

When she’s right on the verge of orgasm, and you need to ‘tip her over the edge,’ simply say:

“Baby, CUM NOW. Do as you’re fucking told, and cum now for me. Cum hard, right now”

And she will.

Provided you speak clearly, and with authority.

Remember These Key Points:

“Geeks, ‘Nice Guys’ and ‘Suck Ups’ aren’t What Women Want In The Bedroom!”

- Women are naturally sexually submissive. Men are meant to be sexually dominant

- For women, sex is about ‘giving in,’ surrendering, and letting go

- For men, sex is about control and power

- The more dominant you are, the more your woman will ‘give in,’ surrender and let go - and as a result… the more pleasure and orgasms she’ll experience

- The more pleasure, and orgasms, you give her - the higher her sex-drive will be, and the more she’ll want to please you in the bedroom

- Being sexually dominant is all about taking control and leading your woman in the bedroom… do this by instigating the sex, fucking her HARD and DEEP, and stimulating her mind - with dirty talk - as well as her pussy

Now you know HOW to be a sexually dominant alpha male, the next step is to ‘make it happen.’

Cuz, knowledge is GREAT - but it don’t really mean shit until you TAKE ACTION and ‘put it into practice!’

To learn more about being sexually dominant, I recommend you go through my Better In Bed and Bedroom Boss programs. They’ll change your life, forever. And, that’s a promise!

Talk to you soon,

Adam Armstrong

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